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So last night me and my hubby tried anal for the first time. Neither of us has ever done it with anyone else. It was great and we both loved it. I think this is definitely something we want to do again and make a regular part of our sex life.
I'm just wondering a few things.
For those of you who enjoy this, does your partner wear a condom? Why or why not? Do you "prep" yourself before? I'm only asking because I want to do it the "right way" and be clean and safe. No advice, but how did you get over the initial pain? We tried once and I couldn't get past the top. My husband says he doesn't care either way if we ever try it, but I anal. forum like maybe I'm depriving him of something he could love.
Don't know if you're still interested but I just feel like I have to share. I started by bending anal. forum doggie style and letting him lube his finger up and insert it and then progressively doing it till 3 fingers felt comfortable. I played with my clit to help me relax and once he was lubed up a lothe stuck it in slowly and as he sticks it in, you have to literally push as if you're pooping.
It relaxes your muscles and that is the biggest help bc he was able to get in with no pain! And tmi but he is very very large and from the pain I dealt with the last two times, this was amazing. You anal. forum to be aroused for anal. Play with your clit or whatever helps get you in the mood while he plays with that butt. Good luck! Hope this helps. I think it hurts more if we start in any other position other than spooning that way i have more control of the pace.
We have tried a few times before this but last night was the first time I actually relaxed and let it happen. The times before this I couldn't even let him enter me. What worked for us is we had traditional sex before hand and I climaxed which helped me get completely relaxed. Also my partner has expressed to me that anal sex is something that he really wants to try and I think the fact that I know I was fulfilling one of his fantasies turned me on more and made it easier for me to relax and enjoy it. As far as the discomfort. Yes it is going to feel weird at first.
Make sure you use tons of lube and go very slow. Let your partner put the tip in Keep going like this until all the way in. That's what I did. It was hurting and I told him to stop what he was doing and don't move. The pain stopped after about seconds and then I was able to let him continue.
I guess my best advice is relax! Don't think about pooping or discomfort or anything like that. Try to stay really in the zone and think about how erotic it is. You kind of have to mentally prep for it and clear all negative thoughts out of your head. When we finished my hubby told me that his life was complete and he was just so excited about what we did. And that made it worth it for me. When we decided to try last night I truly did not think that I would be able to relax enough to let it happen.
Never in a million years would I have thought that we would just jump right in.
But you have to really want to. I really wanted to and I thought the idea was really sexy. If you're not that into it, it's gonna be more difficult. It's a regular thing in our bedroom. I definitely don't do any prep before. No condom as we always have a shower together after wards. It's one of those things that the more you do it, the more you love it.
Definitely not for everyone. I don't think there's any particular "right" way to do it, unless you're going in dry and basically wrecking your anus, haha. As for hubby and I, we don't use a condom as it just feels too weird and uncomfortable. But I know lots of people do, so that's just a personal preference. We don't have any other "prepping" to do, but if either of us has had an upset stomach that day, then we're both on agreeance that anal is not on the menu for that night, haha.
We just wash up afterwards. And we've never encountered a problem with being "dirty" or "messy", as it were. Other than that, we just use pretty much the same method that you guys do, and it works fine just for us! We do a lot of anal play, if it's a planned session with lots of toys etc. If it's not planned I don't do anything, as long as it's not a long time since I've been to the loo.
Sorry, TMI but there we go! There's always the possibility of it being a bit dirty, but that's the nature of the game. The use of condoms depends on how we finish. Anal. forum use condoms if we start with anal and pull it off to finish with vagjnal sex. If we only do anal sex then we don't need a condom.
We don't "prepare" ahead of time. The only thing is that my husband would only rim if l showered. Occasionally there is a bit of poop on anal be which I never see but according to my husband, is liquid gold lol. You shouldn't anal. forum from anus to vagina without using a new condom or cleaning up because bacteria from the anus can cause an infection in the vagina or a UTI. If you want to go rough, use caution.
The anus lining isn't built like the vagina. It's thin and can easily tear. So bacteria can enter these tears and cause an infection and bleeding and pain. Lots of lube!
That's my anal. forum advice. We don't use a condom but I spend extra time in the anal. forum after cleaning up. Once you get more comfortable with it you'll feel less and less worried about doing it right and you'll be able to just enjoy the feelings. One other thing that helped early on for me and my husband was if he put a finger or two inside my anus to kind of open it up and "prep" it for lack of a better term.
My husband and I work up to his penis. We use anal plugs with varying sizes, slowly working up the size until I feel comfortable enough for him to enter me fully. We both really enjoy the process and I feel anal plugs are one of the best tools for prepping yourself for the act. We use lots of lube and even more communication.
I tell him when it feels good or when it doesn't. If it hurts you're doing something wrong. Also we don't use condoms and I usually shower before we have any type of intercourse anyway. I have a hard rule about not going from anal to vaginal as well. Then we clean up afterward.
Wash all toys and ourselves as well. For me.
At first it was uncomfortable. Just be open with ur partner. I kept telling him to go slow.Anal. forum
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